Ember Index

by Ruby Rousson

I don’t just consult.
I reframe, rewrite, and redesign.
From policies to play spaces, I lead with lived experience, creative precision, and unapologetic access.

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On Offer Now

  • Accessibility audits for venues, events, dungeons & digital spaces.

  • Policy + language reviews for kink & adult industry spaces.

  • Access protocol design for Dommes, event hosts & educators.

  • 1:1 briefings & pre-event consults — grounded in lived expertise.

Coming Soon

  • Guides, scripts, spreadsheets, and captions — practical tools built from lived experience.

  • Rebranding & narrative audits for adult creators.

  • Templates + tone kits for inclusive booking.

  • Access training for dungeon staff & scene monitors.

  • Plus, more tools I'm quietly crafting …

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Curious? Confronted? Commissioning change?Contact me to discuss audits, workshops, or bespoke accessibility audits.I start with the subtle frictions.
Then scale up until access is instinct, not an afterthought.